People connect with stories. Especially stories that teach, inspire, share and connect our experiences.


Through my blogs I hope to share elements of immediately useful actions or surprisingly revealing self-discoveries. 

I would love to know which one it sparked in you.

Please send me your comments, insights and stories.


March 23, 2020

Image: Suzy Hazelwood

Chapter 1:  Love you, love you not

Personal dynamics will shift, flow, ebb, explode or dissolve. 

This is the second in a series of blogs prompted by the increase in divorces in China after people have been in quarantine due to the Corona virus. The phenomenon of relationships falling apart in the aftermath of a crises isn't new, but the scale of this crises and the impact on relationships globally might be unprecedented. 


March 17, 2020


Image: Suzy Hazelwood


I'm choosing to be informed and responsible  about Covid-19 but not enmeshed, panicked or despondent. Currently I am more concerned about the immediate and long term impact on our personal relationships than I am with washing my hands.

It could be because relationships at work and at home are my primary interest  and field of focus, and I have always been just...

March 10, 2020

Image: Naëtt Atkinson

A very, very long time ago I read an article about marriage and the arguments couples have. Essentially it said that the recurring fight you have in your first year will set the tone and content for the rest of your relationship and that issue, if not resolved, will most often be the reason you eventually break up. 

The same is true for co-founder relationships.  Actually, co-founder relationships can be even more str...

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